Hot and then Cold, Yes and then No … – Suzie the Single Dating Diva
Do you joke about your dating relationship being “complicated”? They run hot and cold but the hot is soooo good that you don't want to give it up and you tolerate the cold times. Single Dating Diva Second case is now, I met a guy a few years ago and kept hoping he would eventually become more. Beat the cold and enjoy your own personal snowstorm of love using our Mug and Hot Cocoa; Winter Accessories (hats, gloves, scarves, fuzzy. We've all been put in the position of the dating waiting game. Ask Single Dating Diva: Dating Waiting Game (Why They Didn't Call Back) If they weren't interested anyway they will be cold or vague in their response (if they respond at all) but If he can't handle it or it “turns him off” then too bad for him.
The answer lies in focusing on the process NOT the dating outcomes. Why is that a problem if you both really like each other?
So when you have a great date with someone, you expect them to call back, because they had a great time too. Perhaps yes, perhaps no. Many people are serial daters who enjoy that initiation part.
I will usually send a text or message to say: I just wanted to say thank you for the coffee and great conversation. Send your brief message and leave the ball in their court. It will open the door to date two or shut the door completely.
If they like you they will take it as encouragement to proceed.
If It Seems Too Good To Be True, IT IS!
If I like someone I tell them. I believe in giving people their space and enjoying the process of dating, but not making him chase.
I also believe in not turning them away just to make them sweat a little or make them jealous. What happens when someone really wants something and you make them work hard for it?
What is important is that you know your standards and live by them. Be true to you. What you do is be yourself and get your expectations in check. A first date is a time to get a feel for someone.
There are no guarantees, even if you had the best date ever. So what happened, you ask? He is an artist, a successful one. We met via commenting on an art thing online. He seemed so interesting and even though he lived in another city, I pursued our friendship at first, and then relationship.
Single Dating Dilemma: Is He Into You or Not? – Suzie the Single Dating Diva
Sent each other lots of pictures. We spoke almost every day since we met. During the day we were both busy, but sometimes we would touch base, but every night we spoke. Things were great, I really liked him and he really liked me. One thing he was big on was honesty.What to do when he goes hot then cold - Dating someone who is hot then cold #askRenee
He wanted to be completely honest with me and wanted me to be completely honest with him. He was true to his word, or so I thought. I actually was optimistic that this really could work. We even talked about potential snags and had disagreements … normal. We decided to meet last week, he was going to send me a ticket to go to where he is.
Then something came up, his mother who has cancer took a turn for the worse and he had to go see her. OK, I said, I understand.
So he went, and we continued to speak each day. We decided to meet this weekend instead. OK, so it was decided. I would go there. I waited for my ticket, nothing.